Don't Apologize

Being classy is more than having money, cars, suits and girls hanging off of your neck in public. It is about understanding your wants and your needs as a man and following them without feeling sorry, if it means that you ignore phone calls from people who distract from you and take up your time then you have all the right to be a little selfish with your goals, it does not mean however be rude, if you are expecting an important phone call for instance you do not have to sit and chat with your ex who decided to call to see what you are doing. Being a man requires being a little bit busy, and hence a little distant from people who are trying to obtain you. Be a little later than usual calling than you said you would, or don't show up like you made too much effort to impress. Now this does not seem attractive in itself though it creates a intriguing sensation n a woman's mind that causes her to wonder why you are so different than other guys. Have a style that is different than others so that you stand out, you don't have to be rich, just different and willing to create lots of possibilities in a woman's head. If you cross her mind even if it is negative as in a little mean you are still crossing her mind and she will become addicted to thinking about you. Being unapologetic causes her to wonder about you, don't apologize for doing what you as a man know is the right thing to do. Succeed as a man and be smart if you mess up real bad, know that apologizing is the best thing to do, though do not ever, apologize for not having a fancy suit or anything, if anything imagine your short comings to be funny, you are normal, and so is everyone who has ever achieved happiness and greatness, though men who achieve great things probably weren't worried about shortcomings they overcame them, and you are a great man. Remember Jesus, work towards being more Christlike and produce good fruits and be a God fearing man follow His plan for you, don't ever hurt a woman that is not cool. If you must apologize for something do apologize never take anything said to the extreme let every situation show itself to you so don't follow blindly anything that you hear, question it and pray upon it and let it be through God that you learn the right way to proceed, pray and learn that you are called to be holy and pure.